heterosexual man who acts and lives in a way that is attributed as gay, e.g.; uses make up, jewellery, talks in an affectionate way etc. There are many other ways to live sexually: pansexual, omnisexual, polyamorous, of course homosexual, lesbian, gay, bisexual, asexual, autosexual… We won’t bother you with this unfathomable variety of possibilities. It’s just important to notice, that gender and sexual attitudes often intersect.