Let’s make a short thought experiment: You move to another place and your outer appearance and your habits are a bit different from those of the majority of citizens. People find you strange and even dangerous and you don’t feel so comfortable about this because you don’t know how to explain your way of living and how you can make people listen to you. There is a lot of talking about how you could be integrated and if you are willing to be integrated. Nobody asks you what you think about all this talking and you are not sure whether you would like to be integrated at all anymore. Now, where is the violence? Here we find a certain discourse, which defines who belongs to the dominant group and who doesn’t, and it also gives the sole responsibility for the success of the integration to those who should be integrated – while the others act as judges. This is a discourse of exclusion, which stabilises the hegemonic order of a European state at the expense of refugees, foreigners, Black people, Muslim people, homosexuals and many more. It can be seen as a form of cultural and/or structural violence.